Cole / Nicole LeFavour

Ending Debate

White haired Reverend of anti-gay causes, Brian Fischer, caught up with me in the brown marble stair case last week. He wanted to tell me that he wants us to get along. I said, as long as you are pushing legislation which affects my life, that will be hard. He said he didn’t want it to be personal. I said, it’s my life, my family. That is personal.

    Oddly, Reverend Fischer nodded. When you debate him on issues he doesn’t give up. Like with me, there is no end to it with him. I guess that’s because you can’t debate different values and priorities. If one person thinks another is unworthy of rights and they see that belief as sanctioned in their religious documents, how do you debate that? You can debate whether their religion should be expressed in Idaho law, but can not really debate the belief itself. But Fischer looked up and nodded on the stairway landing below me, almost understandingly at last, and turned away.